Fit for Christ Ministries 

SINGLENESS is the Most IMPORTANT Asset

whether your are Married or Single
Dr. Myles Munroe
In this Series Explains CLEARLY

what true SINGLENESS
means as a KINGDOM CHILD OF GOD

If you are a Kingdom Child of God
You are Governed by the
WORD of GOD (Born Again) John 3:3
Mathew 19 is the base Scripture
 

1. The only basis for Divorce is Adultery

2. God has a record of a Born Again Kingdom Child of God's marriage that is registered in heaven
   (this is a seperate register from the religious people or worldly people who make their own 'rules' up and do not follow the WORD of GOD to the letter , but rely on Judges and Lawyers to settle matters that belong to GOD (man making his own rules up as he goes in his or her currupted state)

3. IF you ask GOD to be witness to your MARRIAGE (and God records it in heaven) then you operate by GOD'S WORD not mans rules :
   This is the KEY DIFFERENCE
   in a Marriage In which GOD is your witness.

4. When God Created Man , he created Women from the man and with the Holy Spirit the union is complete .

5. Even in Singleness YOU and the Holy-Spirit are Whole 
   if you meet another Whole person then the sum total of the
   TWO Whole persons together 
   =
   A productive Marriage thats is a mutual asset not a liability (or deficit) building each other up in the VISION God has given to you
   in your Life's Mission according to God's will.
   Commentry by Graham Healy
   _____________________
   Dr.Myles Munroe clarify's the whole subject of Singleness
   and as a person who has been through two divorces(Graham Healy),
   I can tell you what it is like to have family's torn apart and the soul of your partner ripped away from you , and then  to watch the
   negative 'cycles' of the offending party play out .

6. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind and spirit and according to the Word of God Divorce on the basis of adultery leads only to misery and much,much agnozing pain , and in fact is
   WORST THEN A DEATH OF A FAMILY MEMBER (at least you have closure on that) But a Divorce , especially if children are involved, is a never-ending CYCLE of pain, blame shifting, living in denighal , the Enemy(Satan) will (get into the head/Mind) of offending parties and create all sorts of lies in the minds of Adults and Children that may last for years and years , creating JUSTIFICATION for the offending partys.
   This is why GOD does not condone DIVORCE (except for Adultery)
   =
   Covenant broken before God
   =
   Curse invoked (Deut 28:15)
   =
   Cycle of sin and death
   (Romans 5-8 and Galatians 5-26+Chap6:8)
   Marriage (Before God as a Born again Christian)
   is meant to be for LIFE Mathew 19:5-9
   "Therefore what GOD has joined together,LET NOT MAN SEPERATE"
   read all of mathew 19:5-9 and study the full ramifications of a convenant
   agreement with GOD as apposed to just any agreement with the non born again man or women (un-regenerate) who is not 'connected' with the holy spirit, but if you are "Born Again" your Spirit is 'connected direct with the Holy Spirit and you(by free-will choice) are then a Kingdom Child of God and "Jesus is Lord of your Life" then his WORD is the Standard by which you live by.
   (For example My Parents have been happily married for 62 years, been faithfull to each other and honored their marriage convenant before God and it has definately worked for them)

7. for those who are 'Unmarried' and in the state of Singleness (as Christians) working on your WHOLENESS as a SINGLE PERSON is only possible with the combination with YOU and the Holy Spirit .
   Actively building yourself UP in the Holy Ghost is what will draw
   a Godly Partner to YOU (as an asset not a liability/deficit).
   You should be working on Wholesome relationships with members of your Church,work place , sporting, health & Fitness  etc
   In Search of LOVE ?
   It is ridiculous for a Born again Christian to think that LOVE will be supplied by a 'Person' or 'Loneliness' is solved by Marriage (lot of lonely people who are married to the wrong person as living in Hell) 
   The ORIGINAL SOURCE of LOVE is GOD
   (1John 4:8)
   and Loneliness is a deficit in YOUR character  and can only be fulled by the Holy Ghost  not by another man or women .
   BOTTOM LINE BE WHOLE IN GOD FIRST & FORMOST
   and with your relationship with others
   THEN you are an Asset to another Person rather then a Deficit or Liability 
   ITS AS SIMPLE  AS THAT
   and Dr Myles Munroe hit's the 'nail' right on the head GH